Sunday, January 10, 2010
Life is a series of relationships. The primary relationship that we share is with ourself. I can only give what i have. If i have wisdom i can share wisdom. If i have prosperity or poverty then thats what i can share with others. If i dont love myself then how can i expect others to love myself. If i ma not able to accept myself then how can i expect others to accept me and understand me.
The way we perceive is just a reflection of how we perceive ourself. We measure only the world by the measure we measure ourself or the standards we have set. Thats why its important to live and let live. If we dont know how to live then how can we allow others to live. Thats why "live" comes before and then "let". So i think we should first get our relationship with ourselves right and then only attempt to get our relationship with others right.
To have a healthy relationship with one should try to to first have a healthy relationship with ourself than try to have a better balanced relationship with others. If we are successful with having a successful relationship with ourselves then naturally healthy relationship with others and happiness may be a by product of it.
* I was not able to post any posts in these two months as i was a bit busy. Missed you bloggers a lot!! Will be active from on!!