Tuesday, July 21, 2009
Tough times never leave you the way they found you. Some change will be there and its really difficult for you as well as the people around you to accommodate that. Most people go through this phase in their life....some early while others later. There are tough times that come and go and some which just stick to u as though they have found their loved one.
Tough times sometimes are a blessing in disguise as it helps us to know ourselves and make necessary changes. Tough times either makes or break a person. I have always believed that a persons character is built during this difficult phase of his life. Its the change that has come in his life which he never expected nor did had he ever welcomed it. Yes tough times are always associated with change and change with inconvenience. We all love to be in our comfort zone but when removed from it...its really difficult to adjust.
These are difficult days that a person goes through where though being with everyone he is still all alone. No one understands you, the house that used to be yours...now seems your staying in someone else's house. Nothing goes right, frustration creeps in which leads to anger and self destruction. These are some things which most of the time accompany these tough times.
Now it here the decision of the individual to choose what he wants to go with. Surrender easily to the situation or fight this battle all alone with only his self belief with himself. Its a tough battle. People who go with the second option are the ones who build their character. This helps them to face further challenges in future where as people who surrender to the situation never reach the next level of their lives and end up as failures. Changes will happen, its just that we have to come out of our comfort zone and be ready to face it. Those who are ready to face it never face any problem while those who dont have a hard time adjusting to change.
Change is a natural phenomenon, one has to be ready for it and keep moving in life.