Friday, July 3, 2009
Simple yet Complicated.....Relationships Vicious Circle !!
Remembering the past is most of the time relaxing...only some incidents that really makes u feel uncomfortable. I remember during school days life was so tension free of what u do or what u talk. One could simply say anything to any of your friends, fight with them...and then after school we all were together with our hands on each others shoulder, joking around as if nothing happened. Now if i compare it with today one has to be careful what comes out of my mouth that he may not like and his angers hangover would stay for long!!!I too have changed and react differently to different situations. One can get into heated arguments have we all changed??? . Life never remains the same. So funny...we are the same person, or is it that the content is same only the layout is different.
Its not only in friendship that this happens...it happens i suppose in every relationship. I guess its all because of the vicious cycle of relationship. Any relationship that enters into the introduction stage has great demand and enjoys the want from both sides of the relationship. Thens it enters growth stage as ones dependability on the other increases. The graph goes high in a love relationship, where the couple just want to stay with each other as much as possible...wonder they never get bored of each other..lol!!! Now relationship enters the maturity stage as nothing exciting is going around during this period. Its here all the tension or dissatisfactions creeps in. At this stage if all the problems are not answered and solved these can emerge as big problems in future and ruin the relationship. Actually majority of us at this stage are in a "controlled schizophrenic "..that ultimately results us going in the next stage.Things have changed but we dont seem to either accept it or not able to see it. It then leads to decline stage those problems that we had not answered and thought that as time passes by things will be fine and get healed...never ever happened. Ultimately the relationship experiences this stage , i.e end of the relation.
Now with end of a relation, one cant just stop in that time zone or go back to those cushion days. So now life gives us another opportunity to enter into another relationship with the introduction stages door always open for us.
This is reality...the sooner we accept it, better it is for us!!!
Its been nearly a month now, guys i forgot to mention one thing. My blog has been awared "Honest Scrap" award by Dr. Chandana Shekar , thaks a lot, sorry for posting it so late!!!
I would like to pass it to my fellow bloggers-
Neha Thakkar Silam