Tuesday, May 11, 2010

Taking Care


Imagine LiFE as a game in which you are juggling some Four balls in the air. WORK,FAMILY,HEALTH and FRIENDS and one is keeping all of these in the air.

Work is like an ordinary ball as if u drop it will definitely bounce….may be back or somewhere else depends how it was dropped down. On the other hand the other three are quite different balls not like the ordinary ones. These are balls made of glass. Now if anyone them is dropped it definitely gets damaged, marked or broken. One thing for sure is the outcome of this action is that it will never be the same again no matter how hard u try to get it back to shape. If broken then no way you can even see its shape again.

Health is wealth which we all know and if its not with you then you are bound to loose all….your family, friends and job.

Family is something which gives strength to you to fight with the tough times and the real world that we live in. Same can be said with friends as they too become an integral part of your battle with time. A backstab from anyone of the parties really weakens and it becomes tough to survive in this battle of yours. Though betrayal of friends does not harm one to that level as betrayal of family. It all actually depends on how much dependent you had been on either of the two parties. One who has the support of either of the two, the game becomes easier as compared to battling alone in an injured state.
One nearly should nearly take utmost care in not letting either of these ball break. If broken it really takes time to heal and sometimes its too late by the time you recover. TRUST is the thing that protects these two balls from getting either broken or shattered or damaged no matter how hard it is thrown or exposed. Sometimes you may not understand the significance of these two in your life but when lost it hurts…and if you are hurt by these the pain one experiences is something which may leave you all alone and so weak that it may take years for you to get up and face the battle , by the time it may be too late.
One solution to it is also not to give your remote control to either of the parties but its hard to do so as we human beings are born with some emotions. Without emotion I think you cant be considered a human being. Family and friends should be taken utmost care off and should never even be taken for granted, its where you loose the battle or game.


** After nearly a long break m back to the blogging world……was busy with some work of mine. I know have missed a lot of great stuff from you guys, and hope to catch up all very soon.

Thanks ,
Nazish Rahman

26 comments:

Neha said...

blogging ball can bounce back too :D

another thought provoking post from you..rather, a typical NR post..well, I agree with you when you say that certain things can't be mended once broken; but i feel it depends on the kind of relationship u share..and most important - the size of the heart of the person..if that's big enough; then your mistakes that you made unknowingly can be forgiven :)

Dr. Chandana Shekar said...

ok. so ur back!!! nice :)

very well written article :)

hope to get more of u on a 'regular' basis :)

HaRy!! said...

welcome to the club dude!... nice words and framing up mate! family first !

Usha said...

YaY! You're back with another you-might-wanna-think-about-this post. :D

Its okay. You don't have to thank me for writing on your fb wall or in other words 'inspiring you to start blogging again'. ;)

Cheers

Deeps said...

Welcome back! Nice post!

My family is my strength! Your post made me realize even more :)

Jaunty anima said...

Superb post!!Ur posts make me think...

Balance must be maintained, which is difficult...but that's the challenge...Whoever makes it through glides away to glory in life!

Nazish Rahman said...

@Neha lol...it can :)!!
but sometimes its whom u trust betrays u then its difficult as to how to respond!!

@ Chandana
Thanks Chnada :)!!

@ Hary
Thanks Hary...yup!!

@ Usha
hahaha...welcome back to my blog!!

@ Deeps
Thanks Deeps...i know family is first :)

@ Jaunty
Thanks ya...your right balance should b maintained and only those who are able to trike the right balance pass the test otherwise ita the opp :)!!

The Holy Lama said...

Welcome back Juggler to blogging

Jyothi said...

HI...Welcome back..and that too with a bang....don't drop any of those four balls....All are equally important... :)

Destiny's child... said...

Welcome back!:)

All four are equally important. Everything depends on how you strike a balance between them....

Swatantra said...

Very well written and true to the larger extent!

Titaxy said...

welcome back, nazish...

Family and friends - strongest relationships and support system. It does hurt when one feels cheated, but forgiving and forgetting is also easy. It's better sometimes to work on the relationship than to let go, but then all depends on the dynamics of the people involvedNice post.

Sucharita Sarkar said...

Well-thought post! It is indeed difficult but very important to keep all four juggling and also finding some little time for just relaxing.

- The Virgin Author! said...

Thought provoking. And well written! :)

Babli said...

Very nicely and beautifully written. Wonderful post.

sarwat said...

hi bhai...such a gud blog.
it has touched my heart deeply .

n i agree wid u dat certain things can't b recover once broken.

Bruno said...

Well, the friend ball might not be as important as it seems, and work will definitely bounce back. I do not think a happy life necessarily requires good friendship ... enfin, facon de voir ...

The Panorama said...

A soulfull deep post by you, Nazish. Enjoyed reading it. It indeed is an art to juggle these four things in life. However I feel family and health are two things you cannot ignore. Jobbs and friends may come and go but once you lose your family or health, it is more difficult to get back.

Anand said...

Hmm, that's telling a point of view by example. And good example indeed.
I liked the post. More such as this coming in the future? :)

Deeps said...

Hey...why no updates?? Its so unlike you, Nazish! C';mon out with a post :)

HaRy!! said...

no new blogs dude?

Meira said...

Long time, no see?

KB said...

What's the point of having a life if you have noone to share it with? That's why family and friends are so iomportant. Nice to see you back but isn't it time to write some more? Take care my friend :)

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rama said...

Good post. I believe in keeping a respectable distance in both family and friends matters, be there by all means if you want, but don't let anybody be your boss, or impose their ideas/ will on you, or you on them.
I feel health is the most important factor in our lives, once broken it can never be the same again unless we are determined to be healthy always.
Thanks for your visiting my blog, sorry I could get back only now as I was away. Sorry about the font too,I tried to set it right but somehow it wouldn't. Nice to have another reader of my blogs, and I will also be visiting your blogs, whenever you update.
Have good week.

Anonymous said...

Just as your car runs more smoothly and requires less energy to go faster and farther when the wheels are in perfect alignment, you perform better when your thoughts, feelings, emotions, goals, and values are in balance.