tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-60759531327851428762024-03-06T12:00:13.765+05:30Nazish Rahman's BlogNRhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17987719285041286082noreply@blogger.comBlogger55125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6075953132785142876.post-75297522661315373692016-09-24T21:29:00.002+05:302016-09-25T00:03:35.536+05:30Cherish if you're living...You never know tomorrow you may be living a dead #Life !!!In search of tomorrow many have missed yesterday and skipped tomorrow. At some point of our journey of life we come across reality. Accepting this is never easy but the fact is there is no other option but to accept and move forward. The more we crib and think about it, it just opens the Pandora of hidden pain.<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEilBHosRtz2g4cjLwihLlQ02uOjOK-jE8lwN9jfjI6Uk2SRssnDXwH5OtIxqsHWSBEwEQ6E0aBHts7zecOAqeyYXZ-M453am0U3VR6r-U-ba8wcehjXSdujjn5DTr4nkb9jDUecCi4b8p8/s1600/texas-judge-orders-brain-dead-pregnant-woman-released-life-support.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEilBHosRtz2g4cjLwihLlQ02uOjOK-jE8lwN9jfjI6Uk2SRssnDXwH5OtIxqsHWSBEwEQ6E0aBHts7zecOAqeyYXZ-M453am0U3VR6r-U-ba8wcehjXSdujjn5DTr4nkb9jDUecCi4b8p8/s320/texas-judge-orders-brain-dead-pregnant-woman-released-life-support.jpg" width="320" height="212" /></a></div>
Reality is ugly but the good part of it is it never comes with false promises. Its all about dealing with this all alone, no point in running here and there to share the pain. No one is there to give you a shoulder when you "really" require it. This is the phase which either makes you or breaks you. What ultimately matters now is how you want to see yourself, a looser or a winner who won after defeating all the hurdles time exposed you too.
Sometimes you got to be tough even tough its ends up hurting someone or even you. Its just a temporary phase where you are coming across a new <b>YOU</b>. Some may have problems with it, but who cares. Anyone who has lost something they thought was theirs forever finally comes to realise that nothing really belongs to them. When it was lost you even lost those very friends and relatives. Lost opportunities, lost possibilities, feelings we can never get back again. That’s part of what it means to be alive maybe at times.
Life seems sometimes like nothing more than a series of losses, from beginning to end.Only after you've lost everything that you're free to do anything. Some moments are just meant to be when life hits rock bottom. Its asks you a lot of questions...questions which you don't have any answer to it. Still you got to stand up and face the heat. In this process you may not be the same person what you were but the fact is everything comes with an expiry date.
<b>So cherish if you're living...You never know tomorrow you may be living a dead LIFE.</b> Things/ Problems may seem like calculus..all un coded.
NRhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17987719285041286082noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6075953132785142876.post-24711684577635683782010-07-15T17:00:00.009+05:302010-07-16T01:07:46.328+05:30Politics of India<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgtBM2RAqPlxkqbajksXEn8AmPJtmDa_PNVWgwaP3oF_kCNRxRe8XwYeR5ltIVpTjCAEW7PkCkmZVM_iAYp8p433JVjNDC8hhCQ_73xKfjL2RFqpyy9s_XVlbduuf_mZFeMb5Te6meVvJ4/s1600/ani.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 211px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgtBM2RAqPlxkqbajksXEn8AmPJtmDa_PNVWgwaP3oF_kCNRxRe8XwYeR5ltIVpTjCAEW7PkCkmZVM_iAYp8p433JVjNDC8hhCQ_73xKfjL2RFqpyy9s_XVlbduuf_mZFeMb5Te6meVvJ4/s320/ani.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5494098357450042018" /></a><br /><br />This post has also been published on an e-magazine called <a href="http://www.n-zine.com"><span style="font-style:italic;"><span style="font-weight:bold;">N-zine</span></span></a> <br />It was great to be a part of this lovely magazine as one of the contributors!! <br />The post is <a href="http://www.n-zine.com/2010/07/edit-politics-of-india.html"><span style="font-weight:bold;">Politics of India</span></a><br /><br /><br />The politics of India has gone down over the years. There's no respect for politicians in front of the people. No one buys what the politicians of which ever party come up with. They are all people of the same pool. The entire political structure of our country is messed up and entry for right deserved people are blocked..barrier to new entrants is the board that is always there. Even the discipline in the House is unmanageable. <br /><br />According to the report, the cost of per minute spent on parliament when in session is Rs 34,500. The cost of per hour goes to Rs 20. 7 lakh and the cost of the whole day goes to Rs 1.55 crore. There are so many disruptions and if one watches the parliament sessions one will definitely get irritated as watching on whom their money is being spent. The standard of questions in the question hour round has gone down all because of the kind of candidates the parties come up with. The Rajya Sabha tickets are given to people who have been loyal to the party and not that they deserve it. <br /><br />We are called the next big thing to arrive on the international platform, but we are also a nation where the Central government is put to back foot or is blackmailed to the unethical demands of the allies. The multi party coalition is the culprit here. Its this multi party coalition system that had led to more corruption, regional based petty politics and most important making the central government weak. We are really a unique democracy where the performance of a national party is directly dependent in a regional party. <br /><br />Take for example the railway ministry...something that seems to be a ministry for the small regional party who helps the national party to form the government. This is wrong as ministry should be given to those people who are capable of handling it. Its like a reward for helping to form the government. <br /><br />Some regional parties that help more regionalism while some play the caste and communal politics. There are some politicians who consider themselves to be iconic which they are no way near...by making statues. The UP govt had spent 10,000 crore on statues and memorials. <br /><br />India today needs political stability to send the right signal to the international community.A situation where allies within the ruling coalition continue elbowing the largest party in the Lok Sabha will not help India to be where it wants to be. The government should work with the opposition and vise versa. Its only here we see both on opposite ends no matter how serious the issue is. <br /><br />Corrupt candidates should not be encouraged to contest elections as the law has to be strict and the party that gives them tickets should also be penalized.There are plenty of MP'S who have a long list of criminal cases. Election Commission should be entrusted with more powers so as to stop all the violations these political party do.<br /><br />By Nazish RahmanNRhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17987719285041286082noreply@blogger.com25tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6075953132785142876.post-30049736784885028812010-06-30T02:31:00.008+05:302010-06-30T02:55:59.709+05:30Managing Knowledge<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiUXHYKVoZuDkrx6C1BOg9U9Ftrt_qKBVlgmLQfGnTI_MHFXikzd7sSQmCr6ZtrbRZZAhmWBOAggrREJMnhU8-bJ9eVllDAsS_-SIz0QoqN_CqxzxtrkIDto35My67FxGlLAGVOl9086Lc/s1600/IKMgraphic.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 319px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiUXHYKVoZuDkrx6C1BOg9U9Ftrt_qKBVlgmLQfGnTI_MHFXikzd7sSQmCr6ZtrbRZZAhmWBOAggrREJMnhU8-bJ9eVllDAsS_-SIz0QoqN_CqxzxtrkIDto35My67FxGlLAGVOl9086Lc/s320/IKMgraphic.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5488309874575399762" /></a><br /><br /><br />There are some people who take undue pride in knowledge as they begin to think that they know everything. They think that they are always right and even expect others to think so…like having yes men around us. When they are overcome with pride knowledge, they are not prepared to listen to anyone.<br /><br />Human beings often block the entry of knowledge if they consider themselves to be very knowledgeable. These people simply do not try to understand what the other person is saying. They are actually in their own zone and everyone else looks small to them. The moment one tries to showcase its knowledge is sure that this virus has infected him. <br /><br /> Even if they go to an enlightened knowledgeable person who can show us the way, the pride of knowledge will stand in between. One starts judging everything according to his or her own intellect. One does everything according to what they like and dislike. Taking only what goes with his/her preconceived ideas. A person being in this frame of mind is at more disadvantage. Pride of knowledge keeps people from realising more knowledge from others.<br /><br />Its then when one starts to have opinion on each and everything without realizing that this behavior of theirs may hurt someone depending on which stage that person is going through. A person with mind set is always associated with pride of power. Pride of more knowledgeable than others more control on others. These people try to determine the lives and faith of others around them.<br /><br />The more they stick to this mindset, the more they are at disadvantage. Knowledge is just like a software as one need to keep it updated, otherwise your lagging behind and of no use. We need to treat everyone equally and always be ready to listen, which is more important. As its said that one who knows the price of everything…knows the value of nothing !! One should know how to utilize their knowledge and gain more.NRhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17987719285041286082noreply@blogger.com17tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6075953132785142876.post-24334052519277491772010-05-11T13:55:00.006+05:302010-05-12T20:43:02.990+05:30Taking Care<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi2EoI_HJQ0wN7jZWzPtQwm9o_zhYMOF5aPpfOEpouLTBuJ7beYq-HCBcoDpxl7tFguR6i-0Aj3yIRQq2a_3hweSg-JcTdXoovTW-p74OQ_8WW9vIccb32-e_gLRIwGJh3h-Bk8nCzNu0M/s1600/glass-ball.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi2EoI_HJQ0wN7jZWzPtQwm9o_zhYMOF5aPpfOEpouLTBuJ7beYq-HCBcoDpxl7tFguR6i-0Aj3yIRQq2a_3hweSg-JcTdXoovTW-p74OQ_8WW9vIccb32-e_gLRIwGJh3h-Bk8nCzNu0M/s320/glass-ball.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5469926778440665922" /></a><br />Imagine LiFE as a game in which you are juggling some Four balls in the air. WORK,FAMILY,HEALTH and FRIENDS and one is keeping all of these in the air.<br /><br /> Work is like an ordinary ball as if u drop it will definitely bounce….may be back or somewhere else depends how it was dropped down. On the other hand the other three are quite different balls not like the ordinary ones. These are balls made of glass. Now if anyone them is dropped it definitely gets damaged, marked or broken. One thing for sure is the outcome of this action is that it will never be the same again no matter how hard u try to get it back to shape. If broken then no way you can even see its shape again.<br /><br />Health is wealth which we all know and if its not with you then you are bound to loose all….your family, friends and job. <br /><br />Family is something which gives strength to you to fight with the tough times and the real world that we live in. Same can be said with friends as they too become an integral part of your battle with time. A backstab from anyone of the parties really weakens and it becomes tough to survive in this battle of yours. Though betrayal of friends does not harm one to that level as betrayal of family. It all actually depends on how much dependent you had been on either of the two parties. One who has the support of either of the two, the game becomes easier as compared to battling alone in an injured state. <br />One nearly should nearly take utmost care in not letting either of these ball break. If broken it really takes time to heal and sometimes its too late by the time you recover. TRUST is the thing that protects these two balls from getting either broken or shattered or damaged no matter how hard it is thrown or exposed. Sometimes you may not understand the significance of these two in your life but when lost it hurts…and if you are hurt by these the pain one experiences is something which may leave you all alone and so weak that it may take years for you to get up and face the battle , by the time it may be too late.<br />One solution to it is also not to give your remote control to either of the parties but its hard to do so as we human beings are born with some emotions. Without emotion I think you cant be considered a human being. Family and friends should be taken utmost care off and should never even be taken for granted, its where you loose the battle or game.<br /><br /><br />** After nearly a long break m back to the blogging world……was busy with some work of mine. I know have missed a lot of great stuff from you guys, and hope to catch up all very soon. <br /><br />Thanks , <br />Nazish RahmanNRhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17987719285041286082noreply@blogger.com26tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6075953132785142876.post-43087573636828789262010-02-20T12:47:00.012+05:302010-02-20T17:07:37.640+05:30Mysore Trip Pics...!!Recently visted Mysore which is 180 km from Bangalore as we went on a bike. On a single day we coverd a distance of about more than 360 km ..and believe me it was wonderful and a lovely experience. Though we got tired nad pain was there for a week but it was worth it. Just sharing some pics of that trip with you guys!! <br /><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjdMZOpSCmJITBtm_4Suu8eqNlW8_voZ8JBKo7fOhsfSsKHcC3snq-q9bR6Kp3zbqaPm23q44WBaC-5fk4dChdtNxvffCTHm36Mud1YyEk5HKXBNJe1wOrmuTHHFCs2s_xiHObcxlb8PEk/s1600-h/DSC04158.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjdMZOpSCmJITBtm_4Suu8eqNlW8_voZ8JBKo7fOhsfSsKHcC3snq-q9bR6Kp3zbqaPm23q44WBaC-5fk4dChdtNxvffCTHm36Mud1YyEk5HKXBNJe1wOrmuTHHFCs2s_xiHObcxlb8PEk/s320/DSC04158.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5440284045977726386" /></a><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhKFzlpM186RuvYiXJinWRS1qcyhRXv0FXSOZFw2OW3_KwoUme4LOsdGI291nEEAKE-IflzQSIMHhC7v-UogD8Andd7EBTGhC1M_RKrVA_zP0pOkphpOY-9BeIvXNwvmFOQAQ7hKK-jsL4/s1600-h/DSC04153.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhKFzlpM186RuvYiXJinWRS1qcyhRXv0FXSOZFw2OW3_KwoUme4LOsdGI291nEEAKE-IflzQSIMHhC7v-UogD8Andd7EBTGhC1M_RKrVA_zP0pOkphpOY-9BeIvXNwvmFOQAQ7hKK-jsL4/s320/DSC04153.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5440283411018096194" /></a><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgB9dX3V1OyGen1XqMtYinqySpNgWiFvRrsLE2gK8JH9Xjx8a20QwSM77FwlM6cKsOuLBFoSeyQMA909Z2iAcFK-Ocv8zb4l55Wb1Lsr0JHlMXh5Ebo5Pfiv4ElwpuPHVUnG7h32LWGM8c/s1600-h/DSC04154.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgB9dX3V1OyGen1XqMtYinqySpNgWiFvRrsLE2gK8JH9Xjx8a20QwSM77FwlM6cKsOuLBFoSeyQMA909Z2iAcFK-Ocv8zb4l55Wb1Lsr0JHlMXh5Ebo5Pfiv4ElwpuPHVUnG7h32LWGM8c/s320/DSC04154.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5440279657779982866" /></a><br /><br />Mysore Road..early @ 5!! Lovely foggy view we got to see!!<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhyMGAVvf8o4PveyI6PPcYNIkZVCw5RnemToia98RDg37BrBo-eX88xgVdwFj3tEbNH7TkCg06w4HPD9itlAGhvFAhyphenhyphenIppJFbGpw_SXfiwNwmT0kX7O9xQ_vgPGUOtXlQzVwryK-X4V7Mk/s1600-h/DSC04159.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhyMGAVvf8o4PveyI6PPcYNIkZVCw5RnemToia98RDg37BrBo-eX88xgVdwFj3tEbNH7TkCg06w4HPD9itlAGhvFAhyphenhyphenIppJFbGpw_SXfiwNwmT0kX7O9xQ_vgPGUOtXlQzVwryK-X4V7Mk/s320/DSC04159.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5440284471193074834" /></a><br /><br />Accident which happened..highway n accident go together!!<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgy5lP0-TCjygIeRykkHeW9XoZTk1V3yN5GPHlAOsSvaKLVYV7jRH2lqVGNLw1s0RkJNr-ZFg_DQcRtH46OsmlunVgmVxsjan84PEh_FrIYmzCU-Qyq-91LUIV4mp9nt3U0KpMsAqRsClA/s1600-h/birthday+014.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgy5lP0-TCjygIeRykkHeW9XoZTk1V3yN5GPHlAOsSvaKLVYV7jRH2lqVGNLw1s0RkJNr-ZFg_DQcRtH46OsmlunVgmVxsjan84PEh_FrIYmzCU-Qyq-91LUIV4mp9nt3U0KpMsAqRsClA/s320/birthday+014.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5440282530468221330" /></a><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiR9v6bE5yxpjBjHFY7AVR6wlO-6XUdLAbCR4Y7Gu1XrOJe5OND_r55dJzjWjcUf4TaWNzi3x5R0x2_tbDJT8vy6nHANV2GLRj31wSKrHvzCfDcpPYnC30ylwaue8BMjoZRqMMpyFCzh98/s1600-h/birthday+013.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiR9v6bE5yxpjBjHFY7AVR6wlO-6XUdLAbCR4Y7Gu1XrOJe5OND_r55dJzjWjcUf4TaWNzi3x5R0x2_tbDJT8vy6nHANV2GLRj31wSKrHvzCfDcpPYnC30ylwaue8BMjoZRqMMpyFCzh98/s320/birthday+013.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5440282518897920578" /></a><br /><br />Tipu Sultan's Summer Palace Garden!!<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgkVgcKKo25u409XL1VQhFpiNcp_i3-LfA0eXmeX3OIF4j2Fq_iBy-I3UBK-_15vMzu9vuFHuqRuLBIkjkXmyktxrjzpyVg1Ee2-u3YnyfDr7T1qy412C3OPEMs4u3O3yi5LHshbVBeOlc/s1600-h/DSC04170.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgkVgcKKo25u409XL1VQhFpiNcp_i3-LfA0eXmeX3OIF4j2Fq_iBy-I3UBK-_15vMzu9vuFHuqRuLBIkjkXmyktxrjzpyVg1Ee2-u3YnyfDr7T1qy412C3OPEMs4u3O3yi5LHshbVBeOlc/s320/DSC04170.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5440280321668156738" /></a><br /><br />The lovely Mysore Palace...its awesome...very beautiful!! One should not miss this!! We were not allowed to take pics inside and were supposed to submit our camera and even had to take out our shoes to enter the palace. It was but too beautiful..one of the best things i've seen!!<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjTHItiSsgkLcemoZpcqYOHGhnnM6Eck969ZR3dvwaWZDCAZfpYDEF9OnhwKapFk23TQOmbSBg5F3H5krCisHHKJUi7Wd7IdvjwvD__UmHkWsUckb8rJgqQ3gv_J1_XXkLBaetxx3kw5hM/s1600-h/birthday+012.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjTHItiSsgkLcemoZpcqYOHGhnnM6Eck969ZR3dvwaWZDCAZfpYDEF9OnhwKapFk23TQOmbSBg5F3H5krCisHHKJUi7Wd7IdvjwvD__UmHkWsUckb8rJgqQ3gv_J1_XXkLBaetxx3kw5hM/s320/birthday+012.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5440224587072910754" /></a><br /> <br />Tomb Of Tipu SultanNRhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17987719285041286082noreply@blogger.com31tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6075953132785142876.post-40148711218523458302010-02-09T13:32:00.008+05:302010-02-09T14:15:27.143+05:30Relationship at what cost!!<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhKxUGsqI91Fdg9Q5mtIhWIzjQub7bfbTlIT1R_6VUrxU8aiRAhtxUNdIT7B0rmhAxJfr2afmbB0Hgmdf-f0McCFwDlnXzlkZm-Ggc42BzxUYxN2Z4Ww1ixBGaJJPl0ARdHSZJHIXuJouU/s1600-h/RelationshipMarketing.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhKxUGsqI91Fdg9Q5mtIhWIzjQub7bfbTlIT1R_6VUrxU8aiRAhtxUNdIT7B0rmhAxJfr2afmbB0Hgmdf-f0McCFwDlnXzlkZm-Ggc42BzxUYxN2Z4Ww1ixBGaJJPl0ARdHSZJHIXuJouU/s320/RelationshipMarketing.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5436161757705741586" /></a><br /> When love depends on what we do and what we dont then the flow of our relationship definitely gets disturbed.When in a relationship conditions or rules overshadow love then naturally love fails. If too many conditions and rules are laid in a relationship then too much mind comes into a relationship. The beauty and charm of relationship is lost the moment rules are laid in a relationship. A healthy relationship demands smooth flow of love without any type of conditioning and requires a healthy understanding.<br /><br /> If conditions prevail then it results in insecurity and exit of trust. One then starts to feel that its not him that is being appreciated or like but his actions. He is loved for following the rules and reacting according to way the other person wants him to. As long as he follows those rules things go fine externally but the moment one deviates from enters a negative change in the relationship. One stops not enjoying the company and not living the moment but only dragging the going nowhere relationship as long as he can drag it. <br /><br /> Another type is that one does anything and everything in order to please the other person no matter if one looses his self respect, values , principles or himself. One then starts living the way what pleases the other person in order to be in that company or relationship.<br /><br /> A relationship is according to me is what you do and what you dont, it does not bring any changes in your relationship. One has the room and freedom in being in that relationship. Anywhere if ones self respect is at stake then that relationship needs to be corrected. All depends on the individual as to at what cost he want to carry on the relationship.NRhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17987719285041286082noreply@blogger.com20tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6075953132785142876.post-32632068543255238442010-01-26T13:34:00.011+05:302010-01-26T14:01:57.788+05:30How Free are we!!<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi711qa0izd-AZYWNXMrjh_7zHWr_lsZX9dlx1SgS6bEKfYu2egZFDbR1XJkk3n49hwPbUfKKnxXdpIru9JB9o1JHYcTJ2sViADkBIe1Ad7cMRclCsH3oBgX2klKWYQUV-OHdr_O9YLR30/s1600-h/freedom.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 213px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi711qa0izd-AZYWNXMrjh_7zHWr_lsZX9dlx1SgS6bEKfYu2egZFDbR1XJkk3n49hwPbUfKKnxXdpIru9JB9o1JHYcTJ2sViADkBIe1Ad7cMRclCsH3oBgX2klKWYQUV-OHdr_O9YLR30/s320/freedom.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5430963407180846226" /></a><br /> In the past few days i have been frequently asking myself "How free i am?" We often believe that we have free will. We can do anything we wish like if we want to want to eat a cake instead of pizza we can. If we want to wear jeans instead of a trouser we can. We can travel wherever we want, if we want to take off from work, we can. All these looks free. <br /><br /> All choices that we make are thinking that we are exercising our free will. What ever we do is all determined by our conditioning and heritage. We have no choice over our parents so we get what we are gifted with. Also from childhood we are exposed to conditioning and self belief of what is right and what is wrong. As an adult we become a mixture of conditioning and heritage. All our decisions and choices and thoughts come out from the mixture of our conditioning and genetics, so what ever we do is a by product of these mixture. <br /><br /> So what we consider our will or freedom is somehow a slave of conditioning and genetics of ours. Whatever we were told as what is right and what is wrong we tend to believe it because of the conditioning of our childhood.<br /><br /> True freedom can come only by un conditioning ourselves. If we can do this we can have freedom of thoughts and respond freely.NRhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17987719285041286082noreply@blogger.com25tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6075953132785142876.post-41984769130914736922010-01-10T09:19:00.003+05:302010-01-10T09:54:48.683+05:30Intra Relationship<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhzcHpwK-hJ-mMIuMGP1NGpLHhvGuBUyXffq9d7rDQ0CBuwQDuEBsRuRRUh0-cKk3PlkqRy5kYTO6EM06WFmRdepvkyUcHCgM28Ix5JToufDzES2-Inxqe2W-IPcQU7lMMmOr4DliToztg/s1600-h/relationships.gif"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhzcHpwK-hJ-mMIuMGP1NGpLHhvGuBUyXffq9d7rDQ0CBuwQDuEBsRuRRUh0-cKk3PlkqRy5kYTO6EM06WFmRdepvkyUcHCgM28Ix5JToufDzES2-Inxqe2W-IPcQU7lMMmOr4DliToztg/s320/relationships.gif" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5424961861116622994" /></a><br /> Life is a series of relationships. The primary relationship that we share is with ourself. I can only give what i have. If i have wisdom i can share wisdom. If i have prosperity or poverty then thats what i can share with others. If i dont love myself then how can i expect others to love myself. If i ma not able to accept myself then how can i expect others to accept me and understand me.<br /><br /> The way we perceive is just a reflection of how we perceive ourself. We measure only the world by the measure we measure ourself or the standards we have set. Thats why its important to live and let live. If we dont know how to live then how can we allow others to live. Thats why "live" comes before and then "let". So i think we should first get our relationship with ourselves right and then only attempt to get our relationship with others right. <br /><br />To have a healthy relationship with one should try to to first have a healthy relationship with ourself than try to have a better balanced relationship with others. If we are successful with having a successful relationship with ourselves then naturally healthy relationship with others and happiness may be a by product of it. <br /><br />* I was not able to post any posts in these two months as i was a bit busy. Missed you bloggers a lot!! Will be active from on!!NRhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17987719285041286082noreply@blogger.com20tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6075953132785142876.post-25325305221996906362009-11-09T12:35:00.010+05:302009-11-10T16:10:33.280+05:30Life..A forwarded mail i received and thought to share with you all. After reading this...the way i now look at life has really changed. Hope it changes your too :)!!<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhLoVfz9pyww4-FBpBf0wCQANaIssicyo7eHeASNrklvcN5g7PmPnkC860Dz-Ctvwmd91APk7VXV9Q02iDkfhCq92TJaChdYXnhp19P56634B0wzHTqkA3sP1fRB6uMClSYYpZ9CYLXv7E/s1600-h/bhagat.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhLoVfz9pyww4-FBpBf0wCQANaIssicyo7eHeASNrklvcN5g7PmPnkC860Dz-Ctvwmd91APk7VXV9Q02iDkfhCq92TJaChdYXnhp19P56634B0wzHTqkA3sP1fRB6uMClSYYpZ9CYLXv7E/s320/bhagat.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5402413565998494722" /></a><br /><br /><br /><span style="font-weight:bold;">Speech by <a href="http://www.chetanbhagat.com/">Chetan Bhagat</a> in Symbiosis Institute of Management:</span><br /> <br />Life is one of those races in nursery school where you have to run with a marble in a spoon kept in your mouth. If the marble falls, there is no point coming first. Same with life, where health and relationships are the marble. Your striving is only worth it if there is harmony in your life. Else, you may achieve the success, but this spark, this feeling of being excited and alive, will start to die.<br /> One thing about nurturing the spark - don't take life seriously. Life is not to be taken seriously, as we are really temporary here. We are like a pre-paid card with limited validity. If we are lucky, we may last another 50 years. And 50 years is just 2,500 weekends. Do we really need to get so worked up?<br /> It's ok, bunk a few classes, goof up a few interviews, take leave from work, fall in love. We are people, not programmed devices. :)<br /> "Don't be serious, be sincere.”!!!<br /><br /><br />-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------<br />I received Kreative Blogger Award from <a href="http://littlem-o-holic.blogspot.com/2009/11/i-feel-that-you-should-know-this-about.html">Manju</a> Thank you m really honored :)!!<br />I will take the tag soon...:)!!<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhYluDnzbp9ko8eUQqmnvHZduZrmq0fyt-5YwDQr-qApk7JMnR2_ojHW5dt8Dbm1Sydmz3VMu2PVc02_DVd22-LRaaKJcxWJQ4lsJVpT72NcJuuYIj6p3btZgD7dveyZaRVGFqIz7iPyGU/s1600-h/kreativ+blogger+Award.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 139px; height: 150px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhYluDnzbp9ko8eUQqmnvHZduZrmq0fyt-5YwDQr-qApk7JMnR2_ojHW5dt8Dbm1Sydmz3VMu2PVc02_DVd22-LRaaKJcxWJQ4lsJVpT72NcJuuYIj6p3btZgD7dveyZaRVGFqIz7iPyGU/s320/kreativ+blogger+Award.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5402422619477323778" /></a><br /><br />I would like to pass on the award to<br /><br /><a href="http://nehasilam.blogspot.com/">Neha</a> <br /><a href="http://krazyblonde-kb.blogspot.com/">Karen</a><br /><a href="http://memoriesandmirages.wordpress.com/">Titaxy</a><br /><a href="http://memylifemythoughts.blogspot.com/">Usha</a><br /><a href="http://ektakhetan.blogspot.com/">Ekta Khetan</a><br /><a href="http://kavismusings.blogspot.com/">Kavi</a>NRhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17987719285041286082noreply@blogger.com41tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6075953132785142876.post-43718657640608534442009-11-01T14:13:00.005+05:302009-11-01T16:18:34.568+05:30Believe In Yourself<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj99XS9avA6UA9bnpUZCkSS-ETj0TKW1pSc5KTlMSZbTA9X88zRxAOcqVgeh3B-7xWcHIovjw0BDDYSnl0yoo5I7hOLyCtpjbY4zppz0E1gHi3WDVSPlKPkcRGzpx3H3iKSbHVCN_m7BSY/s1600-h/BELIEVE_IN_YOURSELF_BIG_B_op_800x609.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 243px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj99XS9avA6UA9bnpUZCkSS-ETj0TKW1pSc5KTlMSZbTA9X88zRxAOcqVgeh3B-7xWcHIovjw0BDDYSnl0yoo5I7hOLyCtpjbY4zppz0E1gHi3WDVSPlKPkcRGzpx3H3iKSbHVCN_m7BSY/s320/BELIEVE_IN_YOURSELF_BIG_B_op_800x609.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5399085227830669586" /></a><br /><br /> <br /> How much do we feel in control of the events that takes place in our life? Some believe that its them who are responsible for whatever happens in our lives while there are some who believe that its not them but destiny. <br /><br /> Those who think that whatever happens to them is all because of fate.. in a way try to not face the fact that its them who is responsible. They dont want to be realistic.On the other hand those who think that their success or failure depends solely on the efforts and not on luck are generally people who have confidence on their abilities. They are not shy from taking responsibility. Those who fall under this category are hardworking and are always open to take help so as to improve. <br /><br /> Those who believe as whatever happens its all because of luck...will never work hard. On the other hand those who believe in their abilities and take the responsibilities will always work hard. They will never complain. These kind of people are more open to new ideas and always eager to learn. On the contrary those who rely on fate are reluctant to seek help for problems as they think they anyways have no control over them. This can lead to more problems for them. <br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiSC8uFj1R21x73Nf3ksZLUFNzmSPtVD7uYllFQa3p3DybY3I1dejxjrWh71Kil7r9YpYGAQXuyVvdHesmnm21m4NP1gGHuzbG1LWFDY4U4jt5YWo7HHwnXviDVINO64a8yCKsxnziepWk/s1600-h/MD149.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 319px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiSC8uFj1R21x73Nf3ksZLUFNzmSPtVD7uYllFQa3p3DybY3I1dejxjrWh71Kil7r9YpYGAQXuyVvdHesmnm21m4NP1gGHuzbG1LWFDY4U4jt5YWo7HHwnXviDVINO64a8yCKsxnziepWk/s320/MD149.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5399084975948933090" /></a><br /> Belief in yourself is the most important thing in life as this is what gives one the power to fight against odds. Its also an important part a person character. One has to be realistic too as that luck does play a role but to some extent. There are somethings in life that is beyond are control but to succumb under those situations is sign of weakness. One should try what he or she can do best. If one tends to think that his efforts will only get him where he wants to, then you tend to become neurotic.<br /><br />God also helps those who help themselves and not those who simply rely on him.NRhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17987719285041286082noreply@blogger.com26tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6075953132785142876.post-53611287647537525742009-10-24T02:15:00.006+05:302009-10-24T03:11:50.902+05:30Earn...dont demand respect!!<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhU5Xtwu_f3Hp-enc85o7RbRcyMWXtt-gK0SffjKVVgqIuFmEQUMPslRO1LNoRAUf5MyRO_EIXr9wQEZM7sWoV55NfO0Tj7gO-kQDDjMNMrJD3w8JL9OiGu0-Hrh7CJS-3eQuXyWf5dxBE/s1600-h/respect.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 213px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhU5Xtwu_f3Hp-enc85o7RbRcyMWXtt-gK0SffjKVVgqIuFmEQUMPslRO1LNoRAUf5MyRO_EIXr9wQEZM7sWoV55NfO0Tj7gO-kQDDjMNMrJD3w8JL9OiGu0-Hrh7CJS-3eQuXyWf5dxBE/s320/respect.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5395912509952205426" /></a><br />Respect is something which we all want. There are some who demand respect and some earn! There are some members in family that one respects but if one is given a choice....one would think twice. Same can also be said in the social circle we live in. <br /><br />There are some people who demand respect. Shouldn't respect be earned? Whats the use of fake respect if that person does not respect you from his heart. Elders sometimes think that respect is something which they deserve, and no need to earn it. One should do an analyse as what has one done to earn this. Respect should also be given to juniors as well because then only one can expect love and genuine respect from them. Genuine respect is something that is felt from inside and it has nothing to do with age or seniority. It is possible that we respect people who are lesser than our age or experience. Genuine respect is something which is unbiased according to me as it comes straight from your heart.<br /><br />A person who has self respect can only have genuine respect for others and not fake. One cant expect others to respect if one we cant respect ourselves. The way one behaves and his actions are what helps him or her to earn respect. Respect according to me is something that expects something in return too...and that is respect, but not fake!! One should earn respect and not command as it will be fake!!NRhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17987719285041286082noreply@blogger.com34tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6075953132785142876.post-27845100443814842802009-10-11T15:55:00.005+05:302009-10-11T17:51:39.404+05:30Being Human!!!Most of us have this belief that we are a good responsible human being. Are we? What are the criteria that qualifies us to be in the good human club. Is it that one who has never harmed anyone and is always ready to help.<br /> <br />For some this may be and for many it may not qualify as being the criteria. For some it may be listening to the inner voice and following it as what is right or wrong. Now what is right or wrong depends what according to that individual is right and wrong. For some right or wrong changes depending on the circumstances. Many believe that they not a good human being and always want to be in that state of mind. The reason can be that when they compare their actions to that of others..they find other people's action more humane. At the same time there are many who consider themselves to be the a good human being because they are better than those people whose actions are worse then theirs. <br /><br />There is no one who is perfect in this world. We all have these qualities ,this is what I think. The only thing that may be differs us from each other as far as our nature is concerned is the extent of availability of all those points mentioned above. <br /> <span style="font-weight:bold;">Those who try to be good are the ones who come closer to being a good human. </span>The important word here is <span style="font-weight:bold;">"try"</span>. Results are not that important rather intentions are. I was once told by my professor " The most important thing in life is to be a good human. If you are able to achieve this then you have actually been successful in life". <br /><br />Without darkness one would not know the value of light, in the same way without the presence of evil one would not value what is good. We all have some good qualities as well as bad.NRhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17987719285041286082noreply@blogger.com28tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6075953132785142876.post-73468497165187886282009-10-07T13:04:00.010+05:302009-10-08T00:45:38.899+05:30Three Awards, One tag<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiXwWjjnbJAUuxziN3ah-Fy2zXNkWKgTmdMTWkDoxVUmneB8R-RHv9t6-7ryzpmJ8dZJ_F4B968Uv_EUqOI_qkXQJFtnnvZIozR_rODWgf6GGrNFQ-G7jV3yEOkf_GbJMj8jt9RDzLeWqA/s1600-h/loveblogaward.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 200px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiXwWjjnbJAUuxziN3ah-Fy2zXNkWKgTmdMTWkDoxVUmneB8R-RHv9t6-7ryzpmJ8dZJ_F4B968Uv_EUqOI_qkXQJFtnnvZIozR_rODWgf6GGrNFQ-G7jV3yEOkf_GbJMj8jt9RDzLeWqA/s320/loveblogaward.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5389770294731081746" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjcsgvdaHBHoON5Q8I-vXNYpV41zDs5wlEVw5qpEelNXcOUEgbeQFgOlecUexiOjy0CLzkhzu3HGeSFvldcKefkatsKBd-lqRQAayBbZ8uv9ixscPX1SuLnQtp0ZDUIL22d6lJEb4eR3wI/s1600-h/one_lovely_blog.jpeg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 150px; height: 150px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjcsgvdaHBHoON5Q8I-vXNYpV41zDs5wlEVw5qpEelNXcOUEgbeQFgOlecUexiOjy0CLzkhzu3HGeSFvldcKefkatsKBd-lqRQAayBbZ8uv9ixscPX1SuLnQtp0ZDUIL22d6lJEb4eR3wI/s320/one_lovely_blog.jpeg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5389770285534419570" /></a><br />Here comes two awards and a tag...I was awarded and tagged by <a href="http://nehasilam.blogspot.com/">Neha</a>...thanks Neha...<br /><br />here are my answers:<br /><br />1.What is your current obsession ?<br />cricket.<br /><br />2. What are you wearing today?<br />White shirt and black tracks<br /><br />3. What’s for dinner?<br />No idea :)<br /><br /><br />4. What’s the last thing you bought?<br />Shaving Gel.<br /><br />5. What are you listening to right now?<br />Forever And For Always by Shania Twain!! <br /><br />6. What do you think about the person who tagged you?<br />Lolz..."person" sure!! Jokes apart the most honest and down to earth person. If i was to give honesty a shape then it had to b this "person" :)<br /><br />7. If you could have a house totally paid for, fully furnished anywhere in the world, where would you like it to be?<br />India...the best place in the world..<br /><br /><br />8. What are your must-have pieces for summer?<br />T-shirts <br /><br />9. If you could go anywhere in the world for the next hour, where would you go?<br />where i would get peace<br /><br />10. Which language do you want to learn?<br />French<br /><br />11. What’s your favourite quote?<br />"Bad habits are like soft bed...easy to get in difficult to get out "<br /><br /><br />12. Who do you want to meet right now?<br />No one...m better alone right now!!<br /><br /><br />13. What is your favourite colour?<br />Blue<br /><br />14. What is your favourite piece of clothing in your own closet?<br />All are favorite thats why they r thr!!<br /><br />15. What is your dream job?<br />President of BCCI<br /><br />16. What’s your favourite magazine?<br />None<br /><br />17. If you had $100 now, what would you spend it on?<br />definitely would buy curved chain bracelet <br /><br />18. What do you consider a fashion faux pas?<br />Nothing<br /><br />19. Who according to you is the most over-rated style icon?<br />Who is not...??<br /><br />20. What kind of haircut do you prefer?<br />Short hair<br /><br />21. What are you going to do after this?<br />check my FB acc!!<br /><br />22. What are your favourite movies?<br />many...its a long list!!<br /><br />23. What are three cosmetic/makeup/perfume products that you can't live without?<br />Deo & Perfumes <br /><br />24. What inspires you ?<br />smile :)<br /><br />25. Give us three styling tips that always work for you:<br />Wear what u r comfortable with....whats on your mind is always on your body so chill!!<br /><br /><br />26. What do you do when you “have nothing to wear” (even though your closet’s packed)?<br /> will go for shopping<br /><br />27. Coffee or tea?<br />tea<br /><br />28. What do you do when you are feeling low or terribly depressed?<br />I read or listen music<br /><br />29. What is the meaning of your name?<br />A person with high self esteem....<br /><br />30. Which other blogs do you love visiting?<br />there are many!!<br /><br />31. Favorite Dessert/Sweet?<br />Gajar ka halwa<br /><br />32. Favorite Season ?<br />Winter...always beautiful<br /><br />33. If I come to your house now, what would u cook for me?<br />Paw Bhajji..<br /><br /><br />34. What is the right way to avoid people who purposefully hurt you?<br />Simply avoid them....n if its online then as some one says..."BLOCK" !!! :)<br /><br />35. My question: Are u hungry?<br />Oh very much!!<br /><br /><br /><br />Rules for those who are tagged:Respond and rework – answer these questions on your blog, replace one question that you dislike with a question of your own, and add one more question to the list. Then tag eight or ten other new set of people.<br /><br />I tag<br /><br /><a href="http://swatantra-independence.blogspot.com/">Swatantra</a><br /><a href="http://zebra-talk.blogspot.com/">Zeba</a><br /><a href="http://sg-shootthebreeze.blogspot.com/">SG</a><br /><a href="http://memylifemythoughts.blogspot.com/">Usha</a><br /><a href="http://sujatasengupta.blogspot.com/">Sujata</a><br /><a href="http://kavita-myroom.blogspot.com/">Kavita</a><br /><a href="http://kavismusings.blogspot.com/">Kavi</a><br /><a href="http://urmi-z-unique.blogspot.com/">Babli</a><br /><a href="http://dontmarrybehappy.blogspot.com/">Varsha Shorte</a><br /><a href="http://in.eashagulati.com/">Easha</a><br /><br /><br /><br />-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh18teNQno9RuTKBKgmJDTzyDtCV9x-HYNJIoQVZqZtqK6n7cxV8dvford6GLS1nlk-Z1yIPp_COolW52qul9KagIeYdMLyPG8qTAfjPUX7m91ImDQUEsZbl2Iu_kQyRhT7YiSZ7ySttSw/s1600-h/award+from+sangi.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh18teNQno9RuTKBKgmJDTzyDtCV9x-HYNJIoQVZqZtqK6n7cxV8dvford6GLS1nlk-Z1yIPp_COolW52qul9KagIeYdMLyPG8qTAfjPUX7m91ImDQUEsZbl2Iu_kQyRhT7YiSZ7ySttSw/s320/award+from+sangi.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5389774707263295522" /></a><br />I would like to convey my bouquet of thanks to <a href="http://khanamasala.blogspot.com/">Babli</a> for passing me this beautiful award. I am extremely happy to get the award from you my dear friend. <br /><br />I would like to share this award with my following blogger friends -<br /><br /><a href="http://nehasilam.blogspot.com/">Neha</a><br /><a href="http://swatantra-independence.blogspot.com/">Swatantra</a><br /><a href="http://zebra-talk.blogspot.com/">Zeba</a><br /><a href="http://sg-shootthebreeze.blogspot.com/">SG</a><br /><a href="http://memylifemythoughts.blogspot.com/">Usha</a><br /><a href="http://sujatasengupta.blogspot.com/">Sujata</a><br /><a href="http://kavita-myroom.blogspot.com/">Kavita</a><br /><a href="http://kavismusings.blogspot.com/">Kavi</a><br /><a href="http://dontmarrybehappy.blogspot.com/">Varsha Shorte</a><br /><a href="http://in.eashagulati.com/">Easha</a>NRhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17987719285041286082noreply@blogger.com21tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6075953132785142876.post-36108522143269896902009-09-29T10:50:00.006+05:302009-09-30T03:07:42.811+05:30The Ego Within Us<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjFKrvSnJAsh51RUak5mwI8uhgg-4kvZcO5xEjBMtY0sc5TmgcxEjVYTjK7ifBWUe7d33SV4k6fcwKqWWb8sUpeRkY5DR6qDauf_bRBerk6M3mEgAtSWb7zmTScpEXM24kitNnsOHEkRVM/s1600-h/your_ego.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 300px; height: 306px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjFKrvSnJAsh51RUak5mwI8uhgg-4kvZcO5xEjBMtY0sc5TmgcxEjVYTjK7ifBWUe7d33SV4k6fcwKqWWb8sUpeRkY5DR6qDauf_bRBerk6M3mEgAtSWb7zmTScpEXM24kitNnsOHEkRVM/s320/your_ego.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5386777288194074306" /></a><br />We all have a permanent guest who stays within us. Its our <span style="font-weight:bold;">ego</span> that has occupied this space and comes into action whenever it feels it should. In some cases it sleeps all the time and is awake when it thinks is necessary. Ego is so big that it cannot fit anywhere but only in its inflated shadow or area. It exists in our unconscious and conscious mind and controls it. <br /><br />Its presence makes it more difficult to accept the reality and ultimately results in actions that may not be correct but is convenient to us. In an attempt to not prove yourself wrong you go on with the decision that your unconscious mind has taken which is fully controlled by your ego thinking that its your conscious mind which has taken it. One may even realize their mistake but never confront with it. This is the phase where the ego in you is in absolute control. It never wins you friends nor your able to get peace when it has taken full control over you.<br /><br />Human beings are bound to make mistakes, but to accept it is a big thing. Very few do. What really stops them for accepting it? Its fear of being proven wrong and having conditioned your mind that its an insult. <span style="font-weight:bold;">Fear</span> and <span style="font-weight:bold;">Insult</span> are the most powerful weapon of ego that makes us weak.<br /><br />Presence of ego is not bad but its degree of presence and control on us it what makes its existence advantageous or disadvantageous for us. It is important to have self esteem, as a person without it misses the zing to succeed. Its a drive which is very powerful and helps the individual to be focussed on his goals. To achieve anything in life one has to be steadfast with their goal in life. Hurdles will come and does try to distract and destroy you but a person who uses this to his own advantage and in a positive way ultimately achieves success without damaging your conscience. <br /><br /><span style="font-style:italic;">Lets try and take control of ourselves rather than being controlled. Learn to recognize the ego!</span>NRhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17987719285041286082noreply@blogger.com28tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6075953132785142876.post-17627357150480075652009-09-19T02:29:00.010+05:302009-09-19T03:36:36.701+05:30Handle Your Relationships<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjGWVRu9_ecioN2-Ns7yZ5W-4c7wmAZ2fiNETrHGUOlUwgztZjhm0Z_9hWX4_usTEcmdOh3ZA11QGcD3XsiJfP6C08-mqEAHqRMmyZ0fLW5vL1vgiJGCUz-s0fy0DM0mkFGli8duakNrPo/s1600-h/relationships+(1).jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 300px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjGWVRu9_ecioN2-Ns7yZ5W-4c7wmAZ2fiNETrHGUOlUwgztZjhm0Z_9hWX4_usTEcmdOh3ZA11QGcD3XsiJfP6C08-mqEAHqRMmyZ0fLW5vL1vgiJGCUz-s0fy0DM0mkFGli8duakNrPo/s320/relationships+(1).jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5382928128939996034" /></a><br /><br />We all are born in relationship and its with us from the time of our birth till the time we die. Relationships should survive the problems that we face in the day to day lives. Sometimes its better to keep a distance in order to keep the relationship. There can be times when one has to break a relationship when it becomes unbearable share the space with the person. Relationships main success mantra according to me is trust. I may be wrong but thats what i feel. If one does not have trust in a relationship, then problems are bound to happen and we decide break away from it when its not possible to carry on further with it as one starts to realize it as a burden. <br /><br /> Trust,love, space, mutual respect are important features in a relationship. Some how we tend to take it for granted and when a relation fails in any one of the category, the crack develops. Its very difficult to cover the cracks as once developed...always leaves a mark. When mistrust and insecurity makes their entry at the initial stages we tend to ignore them when they are small, and when it develops big enough to disturb us we are left with just one option...end it. <br /><br /> I have always felt that its conversations are the most important way of building a relationship. One needs to talk when he/she is supposed to. Keeping issues under the pillow will never solve your problem. One has face them. Someone said to me dont be honest when speaking the truth as it may hurt someone. Is it?? I doubt...these people according to me dont want to see the reality and want to live in a world that does not even exist. One rather try to not damage the relation more but by not replying to the questions that have come up and simply closing your eyes or putting blinkers wont solve your problem. One has to understand that you not being reactive to the situation is in a way creating more problems for the other person. In a relationship one is not alone...there are others also involved. <br /><br /> Relationship is something that cannot be forced, an depends on mutual respect. One should learn the fundamentals of the game, band aid remedies never last. Learn and know what is required to make your relationship healthy. Experience teaches you all but sometimes you can be too late to react. So its better to be proactive than reactive most of the times as far as relationships are concerned.<br /><br />=====================================================================================<br /><br /><br />Eid Mubarak and Happy Durga Puja to all you bloggers!!! Enjoy the festive season!<br /><br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjlWZLDhkBaXCwgO40rCQxzpzgTry3dLMgH2UpJ6AQnjolYUL0oEKlQAalfXnXSNCEau0y1VDWo8Z7Euw49NaGwoExluC8hnBx5ueTberke3UXEYOGgGHgyaUKR3OI6gIin9GFWwW0jFpY/s1600-h/page.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjlWZLDhkBaXCwgO40rCQxzpzgTry3dLMgH2UpJ6AQnjolYUL0oEKlQAalfXnXSNCEau0y1VDWo8Z7Euw49NaGwoExluC8hnBx5ueTberke3UXEYOGgGHgyaUKR3OI6gIin9GFWwW0jFpY/s400/page.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5382927749016725282" /></a>NRhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17987719285041286082noreply@blogger.com36tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6075953132785142876.post-29080740088861333382009-09-06T01:05:00.013+05:302009-09-08T01:34:08.453+05:30The Power of Silence...<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEienBHEQcjieMAUPUuVb7C55Ho40iUdhUZHmBI74vd1gbDMELM3xktYlYcvWxMOvuQKnV6h8X_vLMpllhI5olhNOwqyNA4rNERXl622WOIiVzN6tMqkUjsEeEXk-Xc5dIIY7V9XeOmmBOg/s1600-h/silence+(1).jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 246px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEienBHEQcjieMAUPUuVb7C55Ho40iUdhUZHmBI74vd1gbDMELM3xktYlYcvWxMOvuQKnV6h8X_vLMpllhI5olhNOwqyNA4rNERXl622WOIiVzN6tMqkUjsEeEXk-Xc5dIIY7V9XeOmmBOg/s320/silence+(1).jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5378077527778555746" /></a><br /><br />Life these days seems as if its on a F1 track. Fast and there's no time to rest n look back. There is so much to achieve these days and so much pressure. Some how one feels that one has lost their inner peace. Something is happening inside u 24X7. There's so much noise everywhere and within. In search of inner silence one needs to have outer silence too because its this outer silence that helps us to achieve the inner silence. One gets inner silence when their heart and mind are at rest at the conscious level. <br /><br />Silence is something that one cant see and just feel it. One can understand its presence. Peace is always associated with silence. Its something that has no image nor any words. Exploring your inner self one has to go in the state of silence. Self analysis is a way to get inner silence. Silence never stops the time but it somehow slows its speed. One can come to terms with what is happening and what went wrong. Its gives opportunity to plan and allows us to think clearly. Silence gives us clarity of vision which we some how miss.<br /><br /> <br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh_2crHyXuRl4G4pXrOiCz7oj5Q44vIhHARZKIVTJkNg5vFuOO7ZyNMKppRCNmbUEwdKW5lanNjGWgl0IQL7wPNoS1rwgTtorJxqHFqhsv0dkydRXYZkXF4kkItAKTsGJxdn8RnosJVEzE/s1600-h/TOW02X.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 249px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh_2crHyXuRl4G4pXrOiCz7oj5Q44vIhHARZKIVTJkNg5vFuOO7ZyNMKppRCNmbUEwdKW5lanNjGWgl0IQL7wPNoS1rwgTtorJxqHFqhsv0dkydRXYZkXF4kkItAKTsGJxdn8RnosJVEzE/s320/TOW02X.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5378077115785302450" /></a><br />If silence can help us to achieve clarity in our thought and analyse ourself then i think acknowledgeing its existence is worth it. If your mind is clear you will definitely come up with clearer thoughts that will help you to achieve success that ultimately gives u happiness and satisfaction. All theses are inter related. Its more important to meet your self which i think "silence" helps you!! <br /><br />Silence is the purest music...if you are ready to hear it!!<br /><br /><br />=====================================================================================<br /><br /><a href="http://swatantra-independence.blogspot.com/2009/09/award.html"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhz0C6MkIvvuLXyqmRyMFspF7ZLgcA0f96RxoCf6FeHf2hM-9RtBT7QlDrHO0Pdka2KeLbcJws4iPkNAIRSpD1rpDXzNMTF7U6n5Z350KtbIcBG5fjROgagKUvVFtMZ7FKEEUMF00xH1ec/s1600-h/humaneaward%5B1%5D.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 159px; height: 164px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhz0C6MkIvvuLXyqmRyMFspF7ZLgcA0f96RxoCf6FeHf2hM-9RtBT7QlDrHO0Pdka2KeLbcJws4iPkNAIRSpD1rpDXzNMTF7U6n5Z350KtbIcBG5fjROgagKUvVFtMZ7FKEEUMF00xH1ec/s320/humaneaward%5B1%5D.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5378082083582035810" /></a></a><br /><br /> This award is called Humane award. Thank you <a href="http://swatantra-independence.blogspot.com/2009/09/award.html">Swatantra</a> &<a href="http://dontmarrybehappy.blogspot.com/2009/09/my-first-award.html"> Varsha Shrote</a> for giving me the Humane Award. It was really a surprise!! M honored!!!<br />Well to pass this award to five bloggers, here they are<br /><br />1. <a href="http://lifedoeshaveameaning.blogspot.com/">Jyothi</a><br />2. <a href="http://fourseasonsoflove.blogspot.com/">Sakshi</a><br />3. <a href="http://deepsspeakingup.wordpress.com/">Deeps</a><br />4. <a href="http://sg-shootthebreeze.blogspot.com/">SG</a><br />5. <a href="http://kavismusings.blogspot.com/">Kavi </a><br /><br /> to everyone who want to have it, so you are requested to :<br />1. Accept and post the award on your blog.<br />2. Link to the person from whom you received it.<br />3. Pass the award to 5 other blogs that are worthy of this acknowledgment.<br />4. Let them know they’ve been chosen for this award.NRhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17987719285041286082noreply@blogger.com36tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6075953132785142876.post-38655503612000032722009-08-26T13:01:00.007+05:302009-08-26T17:56:43.346+05:30Trust Him<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiK900KyaHW1yXdBlMjXZnqbxGB7-YD-Z6-KP3CwR4jF7i7BBSjw-Zfm0Uny_DbTihZ8Bd6MC77mEc_DwtXbmC30lg6lXyP2i57ee7llm8UG1nsV8OH8Kc4tXb0G-Q_io_2z42ekt-jLvQ/s1600-h/eye_of_god.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiK900KyaHW1yXdBlMjXZnqbxGB7-YD-Z6-KP3CwR4jF7i7BBSjw-Zfm0Uny_DbTihZ8Bd6MC77mEc_DwtXbmC30lg6lXyP2i57ee7llm8UG1nsV8OH8Kc4tXb0G-Q_io_2z42ekt-jLvQ/s320/eye_of_god.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5374185463690206562" /></a><br />We do experience something that makes our belief in God more strong. Even those who are agnostic somewhere believe there exists a superpower.A power that is beyond human imagination. People of different religion address this power with different names, and those who dont follow any believe it as a power which is above all.<br /><br />We as human beings are the most greedy and unsatisfied creatures that this planet has ever seen. We somehow only tend to believe something which shows us results first. If things are going well and we are happy we believe in God and if it isn't we somehow question its existence. Your wish is answered then our believe in him is more than what it used to be, but if not questions start developing.<br /><br />No one has seen God, but somehow we all have at some stage of our life have felt its existence. You sometimes see miracles happening around you out of no where, is where its sure that God was present there. No one can see him. You can understand and feel his existence. The incidents are the proof of his existence as we are so fond of evidence. Its like there is a limit what we can see and what our instrument (sense) allows us to see. Then you can come with this conclusion that you will not give any attention to anything which is not within your sense or experience, or what your naked eyes can see. If this is so then consider yourself to be a teacher. If your students say to you that they will study your scientific findings only when you make them realize the results first. Then your reaction to this definitely be that the students would have to go through a learning process first then only they would come to the findings. <br /><br />Trust is what is important in every relationship. No matter what relationship you talk about a degree of trust has to exist. One has to trust God and its existence.NRhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17987719285041286082noreply@blogger.com33tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6075953132785142876.post-88121277131878417882009-08-21T01:15:00.006+05:302009-08-21T02:14:18.608+05:30Guilty or Innocent<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhpXat7soNnBwWQNeR3aHJ715q5pCORL2tlxocL1FkC9h_9LXtD1va0afrUvbkjdvYGP1sHLhBw-_GdW7Z4Xrqqj3bp79pTMK9fq8kmJt_a-WEIdXmhOm8DDTr6HOc1Z97volDpLdj_K60/s1600-h/guilty+inno.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 283px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhpXat7soNnBwWQNeR3aHJ715q5pCORL2tlxocL1FkC9h_9LXtD1va0afrUvbkjdvYGP1sHLhBw-_GdW7Z4Xrqqj3bp79pTMK9fq8kmJt_a-WEIdXmhOm8DDTr6HOc1Z97volDpLdj_K60/s320/guilty+inno.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5372147622040559106" /></a><br /><br /><br />This is just a straight forward tag passed on to me by <a href="http://deepsspeakingup.wordpress.com/">Deeps</a>.Thanks Deeps.<br />So here I go.<br /><br />The rules are thus…<br /><br />RULE 1<br />You can only say Guilty or Innocent.<br />RULE 2<br />You are not allowed to explain anything unless someone messages you and asks! <br />RULE 3<br />Copy and paste this into your notes , delete my answers, type in your answers and tag 20 of your friends to answer this.<br /><br />Asked someone to marry you? Innocent<br /><br />Ever kissed someone of the same sex? Innocent<br /><br />Danced on a table in a bar? Innocent<br /><br />Ever told a lie? Guilty<br /><br />Had feelings for someone whom you can’t have back? Guilty<br /><br />Kissed a picture? Guilty<br /><br />Slept in until 5 PM? Guilty<br /><br />Fallen asleep at work/school? Guilty<br /><br />Held a snake? Innocent.<br /><br />Been suspended from school? Guilty<br /><br />Worked at a fast food restaurant? Innocent<br /><br />Stolen from a store? Innocent<br /><br />Been fired from a job? Innocent<br /><br />Done something you regret? Guilty<br /><br />Laughed until something you were drinking came out your nose? Guilty<br /><br />Caught a snowflake on your tongue? Innocent<br /><br />Kissed in the rain? Innocent<br /><br />Sat on a roof top? Guilty<br /><br />Kissed someone you shouldn’t? Innocent<br /><br />Sang in the shower? Guilty.<br /><br />Been pushed into a pool with all your clothes on? Innocent<br /><br />Shaved your head? Guilty<br /><br />Had a boxing membership? Innocent.<br /><br />Made a girlfriend cry? Guilty.<br /><br />Been in a band? Innocent<br /><br />Shot a gun? Guilty<br /><br />Donated Blood? Innocent<br /><br />Eaten alligator meat? Innocent<br /><br />Eaten cheesecake? Guilty<br /><br />Still love someone you shouldn’t? Innocent<br /><br />Have/had a tattoo? Innocent.<br /><br />Liked someone, but will never tell who? Guilty<br /><br />Been too honest? Guilty<br /><br />Ruined a surprise? Innocent<br /><br />Ate in a restaurant and got really bloated that you couldn’t walk afterwards? Guilty.<br /><br />Erased someone in your friends list? Guilty<br /><br />Dressed in a woman’s clothes (if you’re a guy) or man’s clothes (if you’re a girl)? Guilty.<br /><br />Joined a pageant? Innocent<br /><br />Been told that you’re handsome or beautiful by someone who totally meant what they said? Guilty<br /><br />Had communication with your ex? Guilty<br /><br />Got totally drunk on the night before exam? Innocent.<br /><br />Got totally angry that you cried so hard? Innocent<br /><br />That was fun!And now I tag<br /><br /><a href="http://nehasilam.blogspot.com/">Neha</a><br /><a href="http://deepikagupta1987.blogspot.com/">Deepika</a><br /><a href="http://chandana-shekar.blogspot.com/">Dr.Chandana Shekar</a><br /><a href="http://memylifemythoughts.blogspot.com/">Usha</a><br /><a href="http://krazyblonde-kb.blogspot.com/">Karen</a><br /><a href="http://sg-shootthebreeze.blogspot.com/">SG</a><br /><a href="http://zebra-talk.blogspot.com/">Zeba</a><br /><a href="http://lifedoeshaveameaning.blogspot.com/">Jyothi</a><br /><a href="http://honeybeing.blogspot.com/">Shilpa Khaitan</a><br /><a href="http://kavismusings.blogspot.com/">Kavi</a><br /><a href="http://in.eashagulati.com/">Easha</a>NRhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17987719285041286082noreply@blogger.com34tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6075953132785142876.post-48291919490131636492009-08-14T00:50:00.001+05:302009-08-15T02:47:02.560+05:30Is Past Perfect<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh0JVsnmap68j6UGFpRXptgFlU3OooV9498MnWwbA0f1QoUtiYt7OGHjTuzPOTEAeeRQKVMPPWPYTftHMlNqoQ4DQc4h00gg-jl0WlImQXuLNkJwx-jb7jZ2qu0lJ6rBgoPpl-Hpixu73g/s1600-h/past-present-future.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh0JVsnmap68j6UGFpRXptgFlU3OooV9498MnWwbA0f1QoUtiYt7OGHjTuzPOTEAeeRQKVMPPWPYTftHMlNqoQ4DQc4h00gg-jl0WlImQXuLNkJwx-jb7jZ2qu0lJ6rBgoPpl-Hpixu73g/s320/past-present-future.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5369563265350293106" /></a><br /><br /> I have often wondered as to why the past is always perfect and most often happiness exists in the past. Past when compared to present most times takes one to a comfort zone. Its like when your unhappy and any consoladation makes you feel like running into an old friend abroad. Maybe we are so hungry for happiness that even small things like these makes us happy.<br /><br /> We all have some moments that we only take out to cherish rarely. These moments are just like treasure to us. Its these moments thats brings smile, happiness and joy. Its search for moments like these that we run around hoping to find happiness. Its a sign of hope which only you can see. Its actually the greediness to treasure more moments like these that makes us keep trying hard to achieve these. <br /><br /> But if we look carefully we experience happiness only in hindsight. Its a result of an event. Happiness is not a goal its an after effect, maybe happiness exists in our present but we seem to not recognized it. Diving into the past and deriving happiness may be an illusion. If we look around happiness exists in the present, its just how we see things.<br /><br />-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------<br /><br />On 15th August,2009 India will celebrate its Independence Day.<br />I wish all of u Happy Independence Day!!<br />Jai Hind<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhX9jqbqA_ZeKGtkgUcCRQBNf0J1y7Hop5XwzYkQn80I0W-x5H34k5RcZHeTtNPTXk2fTCC_vlGaSeWqoDe2yJ39r9OWwZRvAwAMymbZy1PY4PG9dpifV8G4p3GpMGK5Ubr0dJ2h8P1FVQ/s1600-h/Delhi046.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhX9jqbqA_ZeKGtkgUcCRQBNf0J1y7Hop5XwzYkQn80I0W-x5H34k5RcZHeTtNPTXk2fTCC_vlGaSeWqoDe2yJ39r9OWwZRvAwAMymbZy1PY4PG9dpifV8G4p3GpMGK5Ubr0dJ2h8P1FVQ/s320/Delhi046.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5369562784647754194" /></a> <a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhzJraF7VxVy_IL00E9n9mJu9RatzN3xE4nM26c-mMOhUNdUnHX7aRAcoQ3JrLgN8ETfDW9PfkPIXGatdbPrIKKj9IC-lnHs6-RlqQG8gAVsITjHnffHdHThzZ1AfghJsdD6LXj2L49thY/s1600-h/india-flag-jpg.jpeg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 213px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhzJraF7VxVy_IL00E9n9mJu9RatzN3xE4nM26c-mMOhUNdUnHX7aRAcoQ3JrLgN8ETfDW9PfkPIXGatdbPrIKKj9IC-lnHs6-RlqQG8gAVsITjHnffHdHThzZ1AfghJsdD6LXj2L49thY/s320/india-flag-jpg.jpeg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5369570330485282130" /></a><br /><br />This post can also b found at<br /><a href="http://nazishrahman.wordpress.com/">Nazish Rahman's Weblog</a> <br /><a href="http://nazishrahman.instablogs.com/">Nazish Rahman's Instablog</a>NRhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17987719285041286082noreply@blogger.com30tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6075953132785142876.post-67781079772497440812009-08-03T14:58:00.000+05:302009-08-04T10:50:32.500+05:30Forced Motherhood???<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjylzXMbohWqbDNaBvYxOLR9KAX0CynRF3ylOr5YbYJbKtvxl_CWVVH29dDRk59LHq_uAouarL85HtvfF292ZCEfE3ltI9C90JJbbHGdmNL9tNEmdJIK2YiaJcVsceHn5bBg_XGXf6Eb60/s1600-h/supreme+court+of+india--300x265--1.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 300px; height: 264px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjylzXMbohWqbDNaBvYxOLR9KAX0CynRF3ylOr5YbYJbKtvxl_CWVVH29dDRk59LHq_uAouarL85HtvfF292ZCEfE3ltI9C90JJbbHGdmNL9tNEmdJIK2YiaJcVsceHn5bBg_XGXf6Eb60/s320/supreme+court+of+india--300x265--1.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5365671040979235794" /></a><br />Should a pregnant, mentally challenged woman who was raped be allowed to motherhood or should her unborn child be aborted as she conceived after being raped? The Supreme Court has stayed order of the Punjab and Haryana High Court which had ordered immediate termination of the woman’s pregnancy. The girl is an orphan who was raped, by the staff of a Nari Niketan in Chandigarh. After the expiry of the 20th week of pregnancy, it is illegal to abort a foetus.<br /><br />The lawyer who argued the case on behalf of the girl said that the girl is 19 to 20 years old and has an IQ of a 7-9 years old. The girls lawyer argued that unless a mother expressed her consent of termination of her pregnancy its illegal. The lawyer of the victim also reminded the bench that India was a signatory to the UN convention which takes care of the rights of mentally challenged persons.<br /><br />The Bench conceded that the girl was not in a position to take care of herself and her child. "The foetus is fine and does not appear to suffer from any deformity. We cannot say for sure whether the child will be mentally retarded. The pregnancy is in an advanced stage. Moreover, if someone agrees to take care of the mother through the pregnancy and the child when it is born, then why should she be deprived of motherhood". The Bench, which ordered stay of the HC order, said it would soon come out with a detailed judgment on the case.<br /><br />With full respect to the SC judgement, in my opinion i dont think the girl should have been allowed to carry on with her pregnancy. She is not mentally ready to take care of the child and it what kind of future will that child have. Its said that she refers the baby as "Bhaiya"(brother). I know the state should take care of her and the child but lets be honest they wont. With giving birth to the child the girl will also go through a lot of changes and it can lead to more problems for that girl. The girl is in no position to decide if she wants to carry on with this pregnancy or not with an IQ of a 7 or 9 years old. Thats why its so important to implement the law at the right time and in the right way. If it had been done i am sure termination would be possible.NRhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17987719285041286082noreply@blogger.com28tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6075953132785142876.post-46472784142541650162009-07-25T01:46:00.000+05:302009-07-25T02:31:10.721+05:30Creativity Test Tag!!!Tagged by: Neha Silam<br /><br />Rules: It's harder than it looks! Use the first letter of your name to answer each of the following questions. They have to be real .... nothing made up! If the person before you had the same first initial, you must use different answers. You cannot use any word twice and you can't use your name for the boy/girl name question. Then you need to tag 4 people..<br /><br />So here goes my answers..<br /><br /><br />1. What is your name: Nazish<br />2. A four Letter Word: Nazi<br />3. A boy's Name: Neeraj<br />4. A girl's Name: Nikita<br />5. An occupation: Notary ....(neha familiar with it :) )<br />6. A colour: Neon green<br />7. Something you wear: Neckties<br />8. A food: Noodles<br />9. Something found in the bathroom: natural soap<br />10. A place: Nigeria <br />11. A reason for being late: Not ready<br />12. Something you shout: nooooo<br />13. A movie title: Namastey London<br />14. Something you drink: New York Lemonade<br />15. A musical group: Night Ranger<br />16. An animal: Nodosaurus<br />17. A street name: Nirmal Chadra Rd<br />18. A type of car: Nash<br />19. Something scary: Necrophilia<br />20. Ice cream flavour: Nepolatin<br /><br />I tag KB, Sakshi ( i hope u dont mind :D ),Deepika and Easha..waiting for ur answers guys..<br /><br />it was interesting but neha u made it difficult for me...lol!!!NRhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17987719285041286082noreply@blogger.com27tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6075953132785142876.post-77172848319542955642009-07-21T01:26:00.000+05:302009-07-21T02:15:05.861+05:30Tough Times<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgdA5WYnfTUBd_50XNPCnCJkhORxPGfcRYYtQQtwtJTUOtsN_sHD94IKcW6RI5x7FlPTtvHyjgvtntUTAkltzNFMTy74Qf7I-26Q9OGfXjD5q8F8twjVmqnDxYh1dpARHzvbg1p9B_h6Os/s1600-h/tough-times-newspaper.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgdA5WYnfTUBd_50XNPCnCJkhORxPGfcRYYtQQtwtJTUOtsN_sHD94IKcW6RI5x7FlPTtvHyjgvtntUTAkltzNFMTy74Qf7I-26Q9OGfXjD5q8F8twjVmqnDxYh1dpARHzvbg1p9B_h6Os/s320/tough-times-newspaper.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5360644297500739106"></a><br /><br />Tough times never leave you the way they found you. Some change will be there and its really difficult for you as well as the people around you to accommodate that. Most people go through this phase in their life....some early while others later. There are tough times that come and go and some which just stick to u as though they have found their loved one.<br /><br />Tough times sometimes are a blessing in disguise as it helps us to know ourselves and make necessary changes. Tough times either makes or break a person. I have always believed that a persons character is built during this difficult phase of his life. Its the change that has come in his life which he never expected nor did had he ever welcomed it. Yes tough times are always associated with change and change with inconvenience. We all love to be in our comfort zone but when removed from it...its really difficult to adjust.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjruhkSdqTrErFYGbOhy8MrxpLXjvTLhk4UpnPjNhwhQ7FHA53cUVQ_b2dU0OqnB0A1Fhh0Ud2eY9Z9FldbP_vj72ChFqQiope5v-H2zrCyvbxKM5z_H2bvqB0DeTQw3qIdJFrx2dyKGWk/s1600-h/god14e.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjruhkSdqTrErFYGbOhy8MrxpLXjvTLhk4UpnPjNhwhQ7FHA53cUVQ_b2dU0OqnB0A1Fhh0Ud2eY9Z9FldbP_vj72ChFqQiope5v-H2zrCyvbxKM5z_H2bvqB0DeTQw3qIdJFrx2dyKGWk/s320/god14e.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5360644518778466514"></a><br /><br />These are difficult days that a person goes through where though being with everyone he is still all alone. No one understands you, the house that used to be yours...now seems your staying in someone else's house. Nothing goes right, frustration creeps in which leads to anger and self destruction. These are some things which most of the time accompany these tough times.<br /><br />Now it here the decision of the individual to choose what he wants to go with. Surrender easily to the situation or fight this battle all alone with only his self belief with himself. Its a tough battle. People who go with the second option are the ones who build their character. This helps them to face further challenges in future where as people who surrender to the situation never reach the next level of their lives and end up as failures. Changes will happen, its just that we have to come out of our comfort zone and be ready to face it. Those who are ready to face it never face any problem while those who dont have a hard time adjusting to change.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj1AVygLF4pbvRDkyxCPBUj70NpdQKwzg6z-ZASPKaJ3ttY6FZj7NB1tX6ZXSazXCmR8k456goq5omETkLOIQVeEGGqX0JqAZmIBH0oQnhCVsZ2F_-2uIOAQKYbPUBi944ILrmhqwdVF7k/s1600-h/2328879637_c0d2e376ff.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 214px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj1AVygLF4pbvRDkyxCPBUj70NpdQKwzg6z-ZASPKaJ3ttY6FZj7NB1tX6ZXSazXCmR8k456goq5omETkLOIQVeEGGqX0JqAZmIBH0oQnhCVsZ2F_-2uIOAQKYbPUBi944ILrmhqwdVF7k/s320/2328879637_c0d2e376ff.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5360643625117510946"></a><br /><br />Change is a natural phenomenon, one has to be ready for it and keep moving in life.NRhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17987719285041286082noreply@blogger.com22tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6075953132785142876.post-25027530145425722202009-07-17T01:24:00.000+05:302009-07-17T03:19:59.299+05:30Tweenhood...Tag<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhgQsnRYKEbrpvic4DvKH3MNNYzcUb0pxsHuDM2if-svUxEaMD4fmdGrGCAZxsMfAy5ASqoajFkBMtF6ax_RcIEErgTJOO5j4hsn4JLM2E2sz9Urq9DH37P1ep7Cu9FxacU2n5aseJg2Ug/s1600-h/rolls-royce-phantom-coupe.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhgQsnRYKEbrpvic4DvKH3MNNYzcUb0pxsHuDM2if-svUxEaMD4fmdGrGCAZxsMfAy5ASqoajFkBMtF6ax_RcIEErgTJOO5j4hsn4JLM2E2sz9Urq9DH37P1ep7Cu9FxacU2n5aseJg2Ug/s320/rolls-royce-phantom-coupe.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5359178548190370386" /></a><br /><br /><br />Tagged by: <a href="http://deepikagupta1987.blogspot.com/2009/07/dozen-things-to-be-accomplished-in-my.html">Deepika Gupta</a><br />Here goes the list of 12 things I would like to achieve in my twenties….<br /><br /><br />1. First I would like to be in the list on upcoming Business Entrepreneur in Forbes magazine...sounds great!!!<br /><br />2. Would love to have a group of companies under the name Nazish Rahman Group of Companies.<br /><br />3. To have Rolls Royce Phantom, Audi RS4, BMW M6 Convertible, Hummer H3X...goes on..lol!!!<br /><br />4. To be a Member of Parliament need to clean the dirt there!!<br /><br />5. Invest a decent part of my money in helping the weaker sections of the society.<br /><br />6. To be the BCCI (Board of Control for Cricket in India) president. M mad for cricket and would love to improve the domestic structure of Indian Cricket.<br /><br />7. To be respected wherever i go.<br /><br />8. To be the most eligible bachelor...lol!!<br /><br />9. Keep my parents happy which is equal to their blessings!!<br /><br />10. To go on a space tour...its exciting!!<br /><br />11. Health is wealth..so be fit.<br /><br />12. To be always lucky...even if i dont have these...i'll be lucky to get them back!<br /><br /><br /> These are what came in my mind first..12 things that i would like to achieve in my twenties...<br /><br />I am tagging<br /><br />Easha<br /><br />Neha Thakkar Silam<br /><br />Dr. Chandana Shekar<br /><br />Shilpa<br /><br />and to all my fellow bloggers who may hav crossed their twenties but still r in their twenties at heart.<br /><br />take care....god bless u all!!!!!NRhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17987719285041286082noreply@blogger.com22tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6075953132785142876.post-19331723666767065712009-07-03T23:52:00.000+05:302009-07-04T01:44:24.304+05:30Simple yet Complicated.....Relationships Vicious Circle !!<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjyczXC_Fb-YZm9Mv7phZeE8h36lA9gNoCfKZDKotdQgOAUk0wqAT38ZaNENpJ64WFJJIf32-2huAQqyidhtBSK4CAmM53eqDjscKg-DtRkU5jHIMwbpv79NbvWIGvhqJCj3xMQj5CB2VA/s1600-h/Relationships.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjyczXC_Fb-YZm9Mv7phZeE8h36lA9gNoCfKZDKotdQgOAUk0wqAT38ZaNENpJ64WFJJIf32-2huAQqyidhtBSK4CAmM53eqDjscKg-DtRkU5jHIMwbpv79NbvWIGvhqJCj3xMQj5CB2VA/s320/Relationships.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5354320640639736386" /></a><br /><br />Remembering the past is most of the time relaxing...only some incidents that really makes u feel uncomfortable. I remember during school days life was so tension free of what u do or what u talk. One could simply say anything to any of your friends, fight with them...and then after school we all were together with our hands on each others shoulder, joking around as if nothing happened. Now if i compare it with today one has to be careful what comes out of my mouth that he may not like and his angers hangover would stay for long!!!I too have changed and react differently to different situations. One can get into heated arguments have we all changed??? . Life never remains the same. So funny...we are the same person, or is it that the content is same only the layout is different.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjC8QCNUKEW_0EEhdHhvQ9LsxkE8IvRBEaegef18Ro94T6zvDfKgRqY73znWuP7_6DEJGFUPlCEWsWqMp4AMsm2IhaDNsu_lvghWvdKywnzlht4kxDSc9SjPK_rgTwVZaHFzchLNfIEr6s/s1600-h/Vicious-Circle.png"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjC8QCNUKEW_0EEhdHhvQ9LsxkE8IvRBEaegef18Ro94T6zvDfKgRqY73znWuP7_6DEJGFUPlCEWsWqMp4AMsm2IhaDNsu_lvghWvdKywnzlht4kxDSc9SjPK_rgTwVZaHFzchLNfIEr6s/s320/Vicious-Circle.png" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5354320423082081522" /></a><br />Its not only in friendship that this happens...it happens i suppose in every relationship. I guess its all because of the vicious cycle of relationship. Any relationship that enters into the <span style="font-weight:bold;">introduction stage</span> has great demand and enjoys the want from both sides of the relationship. Thens it enters <span style="font-weight:bold;">growth stage</span> as ones dependability on the other increases. The graph goes high in a love relationship, where the couple just want to stay with each other as much as possible...wonder they never get bored of each other..lol!!! Now relationship enters the <span style="font-weight:bold;">maturity stage</span> as nothing exciting is going around during this period. Its here all the tension or dissatisfactions creeps in. At this stage if all the problems are not answered and solved these can emerge as big problems in future and ruin the relationship. Actually majority of us at this stage are in a <span style="font-style:italic;">"controlled schizophrenic "</span>..that ultimately results us going in the next stage.Things have changed but we dont seem to either accept it or not able to see it. It then leads to <span style="font-weight:bold;">decline stage</span> those problems that we had not answered and thought that as time passes by things will be fine and get healed...never ever happened. Ultimately the relationship experiences this stage , i.e end of the relation.<br /><br />Now with end of a relation, one cant just stop in that time zone or go back to those cushion days. So now life gives us another opportunity to enter into another relationship with the introduction stages door always open for us. <br />This is reality...the sooner we accept it, better it is for us!!!<br /><br /><br />-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg38X6qUUC8EUhyphenhyphenkoGy2LwTETG6ZHZBq74JarGx1ZiTDcIxCKKtQe1_FWbyNcdsvUJEMhXJ_bMwECxi3uWiQhvhgZAKu9YL5sjQNz52ltsNPbRbx3gLFaHXc9gDRfQEGeOwgU5zeKa-koc/s1600-h/Honest_Scrap+(1).jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 190px; height: 184px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg38X6qUUC8EUhyphenhyphenkoGy2LwTETG6ZHZBq74JarGx1ZiTDcIxCKKtQe1_FWbyNcdsvUJEMhXJ_bMwECxi3uWiQhvhgZAKu9YL5sjQNz52ltsNPbRbx3gLFaHXc9gDRfQEGeOwgU5zeKa-koc/s320/Honest_Scrap+(1).jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5354319148996217938" /></a><br /><br />Its been nearly a month now, guys i forgot to mention one thing. My blog has been awared "Honest Scrap" award by Dr. Chandana Shekar <a href="http://chandana-shekar.blogspot.com/2009/06/honest-scrap-award.html"></a> , thaks a lot, sorry for posting it so late!!!<br /><br />I would like to pass it to my fellow bloggers-<br /><br />KB<br />Sakshi<br />Deepika Gupta<br />Babli<br />Deeps<br />Swatantra<br />Shilpa<br />Neha Thakkar Silam<br />Usha<br />Easha<br />Sujata<br />Aruna<br />ErsaNRhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17987719285041286082noreply@blogger.com32tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6075953132785142876.post-55779301743902109422009-06-26T01:08:00.000+05:302009-06-27T01:11:08.707+05:30Happiness or Character?<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjBFcD4r_6cDsEiyUfwdpElmWxn9rW6bl3iv1Twb6bNCxZXicWNpG36v_hEk6g6WrW-EIxdp4LFNNJYL6OFlvVGyhyphenhypheneSg07tBrDGQvE17VK_2OHaN1AKeW0vwh3k1_6gdxR1oYd3V4q4yA/s1600-h/radioactive-happiness-face.gif"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjBFcD4r_6cDsEiyUfwdpElmWxn9rW6bl3iv1Twb6bNCxZXicWNpG36v_hEk6g6WrW-EIxdp4LFNNJYL6OFlvVGyhyphenhypheneSg07tBrDGQvE17VK_2OHaN1AKeW0vwh3k1_6gdxR1oYd3V4q4yA/s320/radioactive-happiness-face.gif" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5351364362514489154" /></a><br />Happiness is wanted by all...as some get and some dont and most get it in bits and pieces or in different forms. Is this the only thing in life. I guess happiness is important but also important is a persons character, image or reputation. This is what you take away when you die and nothing else. Ancient Greeks has a lovely saying that "Call no man happy until he is dead". No one can guarantee that he is happy until he dies, no matter how strong he has been or how well he has faced served his country or community...the element of risk will always be there that life could end badly. <br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiGbvDaEcTD0BsScNqLZa5TwGjaK__T8lssYNbK6q-mBmyInnMCYEePpnqAJp7ojKJ6yuPexAC6QoLAHtviSfnYHqq9Cf-drpH1HPeGxLSrCgHB5LSiqJRasM0kUlRU5ZLy4XvhwXiWw3U/s1600-h/decisions+shape+character.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 213px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiGbvDaEcTD0BsScNqLZa5TwGjaK__T8lssYNbK6q-mBmyInnMCYEePpnqAJp7ojKJ6yuPexAC6QoLAHtviSfnYHqq9Cf-drpH1HPeGxLSrCgHB5LSiqJRasM0kUlRU5ZLy4XvhwXiWw3U/s320/decisions+shape+character.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5351364575991043906" /></a> <br /><br />Character according to me is associated with happiness as happiness is a bonus package with it but sometimes not seen, on the other hand happiness can exist without character but for a limited period of time. I mean happiness is not the end of life, character is!!! Many a times people have risked a lot of things just for a few moments of fun. After a person dies neither happiness nor his character goes with him...as a matter of fact happiness dies the moment the person dies its only his character which stays here for ever. Its for his character the person is always remembered and is alive in the thoughts of people.NRhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17987719285041286082noreply@blogger.com35